Afraid To Loose You

"When I saw you I was afraid to meet you,
When I met you I was afraid to know you,
When I knew you I was afraid to love you,
Now I love you and I'm afraid to lose you!"

JIKA KAMU...

Jika kamu memancing ikan....
setelah ikan itu terlekat dimata kail hendaklah kamu mengambil terus ikan itu....
janganlah sesekali kamu lepaskan ia semula ke dalam air begitu sahaja....
kerana ia akan sakit oleh kerana bisanya ketajaman mata kail mu dan mungkin akan menderita selagi ia masih hidup.

Begitulah juga setelah kamu memberi banyak pengharapan kepada seseorang...
setelah ia mula menyayangimu hendaklah kamu menjaga hatinya....
janganlah sesekali kamu terus meninggalkannya begitu sahaja....
kerana dia akan terluka oleh kenangan bersamamu dan mungkin tidak dapat
melupakan segalanya selagi dia mengingatimu....

Jika kamu menadah air biarlah berpada, jangan terlalu mengharap pada takungannya dan janganlah menganggap ia begitu teguh....
cukuplah sekadar keperluanmu.... Apabila sekali ia retak....
tentu sukar untuk kamu menampalnya semula.... akhirnya ia dibuang.... sedangkan jika kamu cuba membaikinya mungkin ia masih boleh digunakan lagi....

Begitu juga jika kamu memiliki seseorang terima lah seadanya....
Janganlah kamu terlalu mengaguminya dan janganlah kamu menganggapnya begitu istimewa.... anggaplah dia manusia biasa. Apabila sekali dia melakukan kesilapan bukan mudah bagi kamu untuk menerimanya....
akhirya kamu kecewa dan meninggalkannya. Sedangkan jika kamu memaafkannya boleh jadi hubungan kamu akan berterusan hingga keakhirnya....


Jika kamu telah memiliki sepinggan nasi... yang kamu pasti baik untuk dirimu. Mengenyangkan. Berkhasiat. Mengapa kamu berlengah, cuba mencari makanan yang lain..
Terlalu ingin mengejar kelazatan. Kelak, nasi itu akan basi dan kamu tidak boleh memakannya. Kamu akan menyesal.

Begitu juga jika kamu telah bertemu dengan seorang insan... yang kamu pasti membawa kebaikan kepada dirimu. Menyayangimu. Mengasihimu. Mengapa kamu berlengah, cuba membandingkannya dengan yang lain. Terlalu mengejar kesempurnaan. Kelak, kamu kehilangannya dan kamu akan menyesal apabila dia beralih arah.

Woman

Sometimes I faced difficulty to understand about WOMAN. Maybe the story below will help me in order to get clear picture what's WOMAN is all about.

A French teacher was explaining to her class that in French, unlike English, nouns are designated as either masculine or feminine. 'House', for instance, is feminine; 'Pencil', however, is masculine.

A student asked, What gender is 'computer'? Instead of giving the answer, the teacher split the class into two groups, male and female, and asked them to decide for themselves whether computer should be a masculine or feminine noun. Each group was asked to give four reasons for their recommendation.

The men's group decided that computer should definitely be of the feminine gender (la computer), because:

1. No one but their creator understands their internal logic.

2. The language they use to communicate with other computers is incomprehensible to everyone else.

3. Even the smallest mistakes are stored in long term memory for possible later retrieval;

4. And ss soon as you make a commitment to one, you find yourself spending half your paycheck on accessories for it. (No chuckling guys ... this gets better!!!)

The women's group, however, concluded that computers should be masculine (le computer), because:

1. In order to do anything with them, you have to turn them on.

2. They have a lot of data but still can't think for themselves

3. They are supposed to help you solve problems, but half the time THEY are the problem;

4. And as soon as you commit to one, you realize that if you had waited a little longer, you could have gotten a better model... aaa...so?

the conclusion is?? male or female??? haduu..haruu camni...

Don't Cry

TALK TO ME SOFLY, THERE’S ARE SOMETHING IN YOUR EYE’S, DON’T HANG YOUR HEAD IN SORROW, AND PLEASE DON’T CRY, I KNOW HOW I FEEL INSIDE I’VE, I’VE BEEN BEFORE, SOMETHIN’S CHANGIN’ INSIDE YOU, AND DON’T YOU KNOW

DON’T YOU CRY TONIGHT, I STILL LOVE YOU BABY, DON’T YOU CRY TONIGHT, THERE’S HEAVEN ABOVE YOU BABY, AND DON’T YOU CRY TONIGHT

GIVE ME A WHISPER, AND GIVE ME A SIGH, GIVE ME A KISS BEFORE YOU TELL ME GOODBYE, DON’T TAKE IT SO HARD NOW, AND PLEASE DON’T TAKE IT SO BAD
I’LL STILL BE THINKING OF YOU, AND THE TIME WE HAD…BABY…

AND DON’T YOU CRY TONIGHT, DON’T YOU CRY TONIGHT, THERE’S HEAVEN ABOVE YOU BABY, AND DON’T YOU CRY TONIGHT

AND PLEASE REMEMBER THAT I NEVER LIED, AND PLEASE REMEMBER
HOW I FEEL INSIDE NOW HONEY, YOU GOTTA MAKE IT YOUR OWN WAY
BUT YOU’LL BE ALRIGHT NOW SUGAR, YOU’LL FEEL BETTER TOMORROW
COME THE MORNING LIGHT NOW BABY

AND DON’T YOU CRY TONIGHT, DON’T YOU CRY TONIGHT, DON’T YOU CRY TONIGHT
BABY MAYBE SOMEDAY, DON’T YOU CRY TONIGHT, DON’T YOU EVER CRY TONIGHT
DON’T YOU CRY TONIGHT…

Why Women Cry...

A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?"
"Because I'm a woman," she told him.

"I don't understand," he said.His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you
never will."

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no
reason?

" All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.

Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked,
"God, why do women cry so easily?"

God said:

" When I made the woman she had to be special.
I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world yet gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that any times comes from her children.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining..

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."

"You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

To Someone Far Away

Hearts Could only Love For a While,
Feet Could only Walk For Some Mile,
Clothes Won't Forever in Style,
But Knowing You In My Life Is Forever Worthwhile.